Anonymous asked: I want to go to my school counselor about my addiction to cutting and suicidal thoughts. What actions to you think they would take and would the nurse want to see my cuts and burns?
I’m not sure what they would do. but it’s great that you’re telling someone. that is so brave and you will get past this.
Anonymous asked: sorry we can't all be so beautiful like you. I guess ugly people can't show love
what are you talking about?! you are beautiful. and everyone can experience love. it doesn’t matter your color, your weight, your age, anything.
Anonymous asked: I am in love with one of my guy friends. No one knows but me. We tell each other everything, and I trust him with my life. He has a girlfriend but still makes sure our friendship never fades. Even though he has a girlfriend, I was there before her, and he acts like i'm more important. Friend wise. But when I dare and try to talk to another guy, or get into a relationship, he freaks out and gets all protective. I just don't understand. Should I tell him, or should I just keep my friendship?
you can definitely tell him, because he should know. you will never know how he feels if you don’t let him know. that being said, respect his girlfriend while you tell him. don’t get flirty or say anything bad about her. just put yourself in her shoes.
Anonymous asked: PROBLEM Continued: . I know that I want him back, but especially with me feeling like I annoy him, don't want to make a move. Sometimes, once in a while, he randomly texts me to keep me updated on his life, but then he purpously makes the convos go dead(I know him pretty well). I don't want to foever ruin any type of relationship by being the annoying crazy ex, but I hate not talking to him. Advice please?
first, tell him how you feel. tell him exactly what you told me. apologize and say you were wrong for leaving him. the answer you get back will make or break your future relationship. if he wants this as bad as you do, he will work to fix it too. goodluck!
Anonymous asked: PROBLEM: What do you do when you stupidly break up with a long distance relationship with a guy you're madly in love with, and know you messed it up. In the beginning, we thought we couldn't date, so stopped being friends, then didn't let it stop us, dated for a long time, and like I said, I stupidly broke up with him over something dumb. I'm pretty sure I annoy him now, and that drives me crazy. I am absolutely sure when we were dating he loved me, but I have no idea if he still does to.
Anonymous asked: So I've been with my boyfriend for a month now but I don't know if I'm into it anymore. I lOVE him though, but I idk what wrong and we still haven't kissed...
I’m sorry, but I doubt you love him. everything you just described to me is not love whatsoever. and my best advice would be to chase what makes you happy and what gives you butterflies. end this because its going nowhere and you’re too young.
Anonymous asked: My boyfriends' friend doesn't believe our relationship will last. Is this normal?
it’s not up to him. he would have no idea. just dont let other peoples opinions effect you. if you both work to make it last, it will.
Anonymous asked: I'm not an attractive guy, but I really like this hot girl that seems to go after all the players. It always ends up bad and she gets hurt. She seems like my type, loyal and just wants to be in love with her best friend. Should i let her just keep hurting herself or should I talk to her?
well, I’m going to be very honest with you. girls that go on and on about just wanting a nice guy that will care about her, are full of shit. I would know. she does want that, but she expects it to be a hot muscular guy at the same time. highschool girls are way too vein to date a guy based on personality. go for a girl who deserves you more, that way you don’t put yourself out there and get hurt.
Anonymous asked: So this guy and I are friends and we can act couple-y at times but I don't want to look too clingy. How do I know if I'm being clingy?
his whole mood around you will change if he starts to feel like you’re being clingy. just leave most of the moves up to him! trust me, he will make them.
Anonymous asked: There's this guy that I really like. I told him I liked him and he said that he doesn't want a girlfriend because he got really hurt the last time he was in a relationship. I said that he was right, we should just be friends. But I can't get over him. We don't talk much but when we do we flirt and there is so much chemistry. It's driving me crazy, I don't know what to do. I know I should move on, but I don't fall easy and it just feels so right.
you did the one thing you can do, you told him. he knows now so it’s all on him. keep showing him that you will always be there. he’s probably just scared. relationships are a big deal, and he probably doesn’t want to just jump in to it. don’t look desperate though!